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What to Write on a Flower Delivery Card (with Examples)

By , Founder and lead floral designer, 6 years of floral design experience Published Updated

Keep a flower delivery card short, sincere, and specific. One or two honest lines that name the occasion will always land better than a long, generic message, and every Adore order leaves our Downtown Los Angeles studio with the note written by hand.

Most people stall on the card, not the flowers. The message is what the recipient keeps, and it is usually the part that gets rushed at checkout. Below is a formula that works, examples you can borrow, and the research on why a short note is worth more than you think.

What should you write on a flower delivery card?

Write three beats: name the moment, say one personal thing, then close warmly.

"Happy birthday. So glad the world got you in it. Love, Anna." That is a complete card, and it took eleven words.

The personal beat is the one that does the work. A shared memory, a detail only the two of you would notice, an inside joke. Skip it and the card reads like a receipt.

How long should the message be?

One to three sentences. Our cards hold roughly 25 to 40 words comfortably, and past that the handwriting shrinks and the message loses its shape.

Brevity also reads as composure. A long card can look like an apology for the flowers, which is never the impression you want.

If you have more to say, say it in a call or a letter later. The card is the doorway, not the room.

Does a short note actually land?

Yes, and people consistently underestimate how much. Research by Amit Kumar and Nicholas Epley, published by Chicago Booth, found that senders of gratitude notes overestimated how awkward recipients would feel and underestimated how positive they would feel.

I have watched that gap close in person at the door. The senders who worried most about sounding clumsy are the ones whose cards get photographed.

What do you write for each occasion?

Borrow any of these and change one detail so it sounds like you.

  • Birthday. "Happy birthday. Here is to a year as good as you are."
  • Anniversary. "Twelve years, and I would choose you again. Happy anniversary."
  • Sympathy. "With deepest sympathy. Thinking of you and your family."
  • Get well. "Sending you sunshine until you are back on your feet."
  • Thank you. "Thank you, truly. Your kindness did not go unnoticed."
  • New baby. "Congratulations on your little one. Wishing you rest and joy."
  • Congratulations. "You earned every bit of this. Enjoy the moment."
  • Just because. "No reason. Just thinking of you today."

The occasion sets the tone more than the words do. A birthday card can be playful, a sympathy card should be plain, and a work thank-you should stay warm without becoming personal.

How do you sign a flower card?

Close with whatever matches the relationship. "Love," "With love," "Fondly," "Thinking of you," or simply your name.

Use the name the recipient calls you, not your full legal one. A card signed with a surname reads like an invoice.

For a card from a team, sign it with the group and one person. "From all of us at the studio, and from Sam" gives the recipient someone to thank.

Can you send the card anonymously?

Yes. Leave the sender blank and we write and deliver the message without a signature.

Recipients sometimes call the studio to ask who sent them, and we do not say. Our guide to sending flowers anonymously covers how that works.

How does the note get written?

Add your message at checkout and I write it by hand on a card at the bench, before the arrangement is wrapped. There are no printed labels on anything we send.

Arrangements start at $150 and leave the studio the same day on orders before 11 AM, Monday through Saturday. Send a line with a birthday arrangement, a few gentle words with a sympathy piece, or something private with romance.

Where do you deliver the card and flowers?

Across 31 Los Angeles neighborhoods, from our Downtown studio, in two windows, 10 AM to 1 PM and 1 to 5 PM.

That includes Beverly Hills across 90210 and 90212, and Culver City across 90232. Coverage and timing sit on the delivery page.

Related reading

See how to send flowers anonymously, the best anniversary flowers, and what to send for a birthday in LA.

Common questions

Questions, answered

What should I write on a flower delivery card?
Keep it short, sincere, and specific: one or two lines that name the occasion or a shared memory. A few honest words beat a long generic message every time.
How long should a flower card message be?
One to three sentences is plenty. A card holds roughly 25 to 40 words comfortably, and brevity reads as heartfelt rather than rushed.
What do I write for a sympathy arrangement?
Something gentle and simple, such as "With deepest sympathy, thinking of you and your family." Sincerity matters far more than eloquence here.
Can I send the card anonymously?
Yes. Leave the sender unnamed and we still write and deliver your message. See sending flowers anonymously.
Is the card printed or hand-written?
Hand-written at the bench in our Downtown Los Angeles studio, on every order. Add your message at checkout before the 11 AM cutoff and it goes out with the arrangement the same day.
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